I think a lot of guys need to start understanding that women are just as insecure about themselves as you are. Actually they’re probably more insecure. It’s an odd thing really. When you see a woman that is very beautiful, with guys chasing her and her having a lot of boyfriends, you would just assume that she knows she’s hot and that she is perfect.
At least that’s the way I used to look at it, but often this type of situation breeds the biggest insecurities for her. She spends countless hours preparing just to be seen in public and she has to look her best. She has expectations that she has to meet. She also feels like guys only like her for her looks, so if she isn’t looking good she’ll get dumped.
It’s pretty rough.
There’s no need to put women on a pedestal because they’re just as human as you or I. They have fears. They have doubts. They have insecurities. They have embarrassing moments. They desire to be loved. They desire to be appreciated. They’re human.
The point of this post was humility. You need to stop living in your head and being so damn insecure about talking to women. She has the same fears. When you go up to a woman, she is just as afraid of being judged as you are of being judged.
Stop worrying so much. You’re both humans.