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I think a lot of guys struggle to make their dates fun and it just is a self-fulfilling prophecy that gets them no where. It isn’t that hard to have a good time, you just need to breakout of the ordinary and understand what is fun.
1. Be Different
You can be traditional with your dates and you’ll probably be doing something that has been done many times before. Try something different for once. Do something that no other guy has done on a date before. Yes, you may be required to THINK about what you should be doing, but that’s okay.
2. Be Spontaneous
A lot of guys out there need to learn how to become spontaneous because it really isn’t that hard. It’s just doing something in the spur of the moment. At first, this will be difficult because you probably haven’t flexed those “spontaneous muscles”, but if you just keep trying to flex them they’ll get stronger.
3. Do Something You Want to Do
Here is a suggestion for you that will also fall under the spontaneous point and being different. I have a business card (not mine), which I have a list of all these different things that I want to do this year. Some points are larger than others, but range from things like sky diving to eating some sort of weird food.
When you first meet up for the date just hand her the card, tell her what it is and tell her to pick one. You’ll end up doing something that you want to do. You’ll be spontaneous and definitely different.
4. High Adrenalin Activities
It has been proven that when you have more extreme chemicals pumping in your body, you end up bonding at a much more emotional level. That means you should go and do something exciting. Get the adrenalin pumping through the blood.
Go to a gun range for a date. It’s unorthodox, but it will definitely be a high adrenalin activity.
5. Don’t Be A Planner (or come off as one)
You know when you have to entertain a child, you typically will have a planned out day for them. At least if you keep them busy, you don’t have to deal with them. This isn’t something that you want to create when you’re dating.
You can have a plan, but keep it very loose. It’s okay to get side tracked or do something spontaneous on the side.
Dating should be a fun and exciting experience. Everybody is looking to have fun while dating. Meeting that special someone is a valuable experience and should not be taken lightly. If you have not met your soul mate, then chances are that you are looking for that person. Finding that special guy or gal may seem to be an never-ending process. However, when you do find that person you want to keep them in love and happy.