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A lot of guys struggle with the concept of a kiss at the end of a date and really don’t do things right. I’m not talking about the actual “kissing”. That’s for you to figure out on your own (and half the fun), but you have understand why you’re doing and when you shouldn’t do it. I’m sure you’ve seen the guy go in for a kiss at the end of a date, only to watch his date pull her head back in disgust. There are some fundamentals I think a lot of guys don’t seem to pick up on.
Watch Her Body Language During The Date
There is absolutely no reason why you should go in for a kiss and she pulls back. You should generally have an idea of how the date is going and how things between you are going, but I guess this isn’t always the case. If you’ve ever seen the show “Blind Date”, when after the date they talk to each person. I see a trend where the guy says “I really like her. I think the date went really good” and the woman will say “I hate him. I’ll never go out on a date again with them.”
Women speak volumes with their body language and it is amazing to me how many guys don’t pick up on it (I imagine because it can be subtle). Well, I guess the “I like you” body language can be subtle, but the “I don’t like you” body language is much more direct. If she’s look away from you, not making eye contact and doesn’t look like she’s having a good time than you’re probably not in a good place.
On the other hand, if she is leaning into you, touching you, smiling, playing with her hair, etc than she’s probably into you. Now these are things that you pick up on during the date.
There are other pieces of body language to pick up at the end up the date. If she’s looking for a kiss, she’ll inevitably drag out the last few seconds of the date. Let’s say you walk her up to her door and she has “trouble” getting her keys out of her purse… she’s probably looking for a kiss. The most direct form of body language for the kiss is her looking at your lips and than back up to your eyes. Obviously don’t attempt this if there has been earlier signs of good body language.
Sometimes You Just Have to Go For It
You need to be able to pick up on the body language that says that they hate you. Don’t try it in that case. A lot of times you’ll get mixed signals or you’ll be out with someone that is shy. Either way you may have a harder time figuring things out. Trying is important because if she’s expecting the kiss, she’ll get it. If she doesn’t want one, she’ll pull back. Yeah, the pull back might be tough to swallow, but the woman that expects the kiss will be happy.
