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I’m sure everyone has heard of a wingman and typically view that as your friend that comes with you to a bar or something, when you just want to meet women. I wish it was that simple, but it is much more complicated. A wingman is actually there to help you have a better shot with a particular woman that you like and can be a vital weapon to have in places like bars. So this is my introduction of the wingman.
Disarming
Any hot woman you meet (especially at bars) has been talked to by other men that are trying to pick her up. In her shoes it gets a little annoying after a while. This is why you might run into a lot of rude women. It’s not that they’re rude because of you, it’s just that they have a shield up that is protecting them from all the men trying to pick them up.
The idea here is that your wingman is there to help you disarm her. You want the shield to come down, so you can have a conversation. How you do this is much more complicated and deserves it’s own friend.
The Girl’s Friend
Women of value rarely ever travel alone, so you’re always going to see her with her friends. It can sometimes be difficult to balance things out two or three other people. Plus you need the time to build some comfort (which happens one on one), so a wingman is there to provide attention to the friends, so you can work your magic.
This is really just a basic philosophical look at what a wingman is expected to do, but you should get a better idea. You’re not in competition, you’re just there to increase each others odds of success.
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