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When you get into a relationship people would have you think that thinking about the breakup is just negative thinking and you shouldn’t go there. It typically comes from the whole prenump talk. But the reality is that it doesn’t hurt to be prepared before hand for a negative outcome. We get health insurance in case we have get sick. We get car insurance in case we get in an accident. Thinking about a negative outcome in the future is smart.
I’m not going to debate prenumps, but I think it is important to require a specific type of integrity from a person you’re looking to date. There might not be a problem today, but after a breakup there could be a lot of bad things happening.
Work Relationship
You don’t want to ever date someone you work with. You don’t mix career with anything so intimate. Imagine what would happen if you guys broke up. It would turn work into a completely awkward place. Eventually one of you would end up leaving the job because of it. It doesn’t matter how much you think you can handle it, you can’t. It’s awkward and you just don’t do it.
The Psycho
I use the term “psycho” because you don’t typically refer to this person until you’ve broke up. The exhibit very obsessive and confrontational behaviors. A lot of guys would say that this is something they never expected, but the reality is the behavior existed the first day you met her. You might of put up with it because she was “hot” and this is where you really need some integrity. You want someone that is on the rational side, not an emotional wreck.
Wants You Back
I’d say watch out for this type because it can be quite tempting. You may forget why you broke up in the first place and if you don’t snub this problem immediately, it will raise it’s head when you’re back out dating again.
