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I thought this may be an important post to do since I see a lot of guys do this. I’m trying to think of the best way to describe exactly what I mean. You see some guys that marry very quickly. It seems like they just go a year or two out of high school and they’re married. In a lot of these cases, I wouldn’t describe this as an act of choice, but an act of being chosen. There are a lot of guys out there that are more willing to be with a person that they know likes them, than strive for something better.
Social Darwinism has us always driving for something better, so don’t assume I’m cold in saying that. The act of choice is a powerful one and as a male, it is one of those things that I want to be able to make. It’s nice to have a female choose me, but that shouldn’t be the end all and be all of what makes a relationship. I should make my own choice on who I want as a mate and hope she reciprocates that choice.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that I want to choose the women that I will have a relationship with. I want to have options and make the best choice I can. I don’t want to cling to the first female that chooses me because that is the convenient thing to do.
I don’t know how many of you reading this feels the same way, but I can only hope you do.
