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I hear this quite a lot actually. Guys that have female friends that they’re really interested in and it doesn’t surprise me. Guys that have female friends are typically interested in them on one level or another. I guess the real question comes down to whether you should pursue it or not.
I know a lot of guys will sit around be friends, while this girl has a boyfriend. But once she breaks up with him, they feel that it is now their time. I’ve talked about the dynamics of the friend zone, so you can guess that the odds are against you.
Risk it or Don’t Risk it
This is what it comes down to. There’s really a point in your life where you’re not really looking for more friends, you’re looking for something more and that maybe what you’re looking for. You have to understand that if you confess your feelings to her and she doesn’t feel the same way, that the friendship will be over because it will just get awkward.
The other side of the coin is that she feels the same way you do, but she doesn’t want to make the first move because of the reasons stated in the previous paragraph.
So it comes down to a choice. You can risk it or not. That’s what it all comes down to. Sometimes you just have to try, at least once. But the choice is up to you.
