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I know a lot of guys have a real problem with this type of thing. I know this because it is something that I have struggled with. I don’t think it necessarily has to do with the fact that it is difficult for me to open up emotionally, I think it comes down to a basic fear of rejection. If you never show that you have any interest, than technically you can’t be shot down. Now you’re not going to get anywhere thinking like that, but your mind doesn’t see it that way. You can typically enjoy your time with a person, without having to risk it on showing that you’re interested.
A lot of pick up artists will use something that involves interest and disinterest. I have a feeling that this sort of thing is meant more for a bar where a woman is constantly approached. But eventually in all cases you’re going to have to learn to say “I like you.” It doesn’t have to be in those words, but you have to make sure she understands that.
Juggler happens to be another pick up artists that really has a great approach for this. Obviously you just can’t say that you like someone after meeting them. It’s creepy. What Juggler came up with is getting a woman to telling something about herself. Maybe she volunteers down at an animal shelter. You can say something like “I have a lot of respect for people try to save animals and give them good homes”. This demonstrates that you approve and respect what she does, rather than the way she looks.
Later you can get another story out of her and say “that’s sexy” or something like that. This shows a much deeper type of interest.
