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I wanted to talk to you about finding a flow with meeting women. I think this can be the hardest part for most guys. I think it is the fact that you haven’t been trying before, so you’re going to have that same mindset now. The idea of the flow is to keep you doing it in a consistent manner.
Here is what you need to know to keep up the flow:
Dedicate Time Everyday
I think it is important to designate sometime to go out and meet women. That doesn’t mean you have to hang out at bars everyday, but that would be an acceptable method. It doesn’t matter if you give yourself a few hours every evening or 30 minutes during your lunch break at work. Women are everywhere and you can meet them anywhere.
This can seem sort of stupid, but it’s a great way to create a flow. Eventually it will become a habit and you’ll instantly start a conversation with a woman you find attractive because you just want too. I think that is the point that everyone wants to get too.
Don’t Make Excuses
This will be the toughest battle for you no matter what. Let’s say you plan on going to the mall after work to meet women. You’ll have plenty of excuses… “I had a rough day”, “I have things to do”, etc. No excuses. Make a pledge not to recognize a single excuse.
An excuse is nothing more that a validation for failure. “I can be better with women, but…”, “I can have a more enjoyable life, but…”, etc. It is nothing more than a way to keep things exactly the same and you’re definitely not looking for something like that. You have to make an effort to meet women and that means you’re going to have to reject excuses on the basis that they’re going to sabotage you.
