Home
Do you have a crush on someone? Crush is a word I don’t like. It’s not that I have a problem with the meaning behind it. I just have a problem with the people that use it. I don’t know what it is about the word crush, but it’s always used by people (both male and female) who like someone, but will probably never make a move.
I’ve noticed people that make moves don’t use the word crush. They’ll say they like them and they’ll try to get them. It may seem like semantics. Maybe I’m right and maybe I’m wrong, but either way I’m targeting you people that have a “crush” and don’t really know what to do.
People will often ask me what they should be talking about, what they should say, how to win her, etc etc etc. I suppose these are fair questions to ask if you have a crush. You definitely don’t want to screw it up because you’ll probably never get a second chance. I suppose that is a problem in itself, but I’ll continue.
Just Open Your Mouth…
Seriously, this isn’t rocket science. Talking to a person is a matter of opening your mouth and saying “hi”. Sure, with this being your “crush”, you might be understandably nervous, but you eventually have to make a move. That’s just the way it is. You just have to pull the trigger and see what happens. The pieces will fall where they fall. That’s life.
I don’t want to use the cliche that I hear often, but regret often feels worse over the long run than the short term pain of a rejection. It took me a while to understand this in my life. It wasn’t until I had someone add me on Facebook from high school, just to find out they were married.
All I had to do was take a shot, play a hand and see what would happen. Take that advice. If she rejects you, you at least tried. There are plenty of other women in the world and when you find another “crush” you won’t even care.
