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There is a lot of guys out there that are pretty shy. Dating while being shy is a pretty tough thing. You’re feeling pretty intimidated and it can take sometime for a guy to loosen up.
Dating shyness is tough and most people don’t understand it. Shyness is a concept where you’re not necessarily quiet, just around new people. It’s a self-conscious thing where they don’t want to make mistakes or project a bad image. It takes sometime for this person to actually lighten up and than the real person comes out. I know this because I was shy.
There is nothing you’ll be able to do to get past this dating shyness in a short period of time. It’s something that you’ll learn to get past as you start going out more. Sorry – no quick fixes. The good news is that there are some other things you can do.
You’ve probably noticed that two strangers might suddenly have a long spontaneous conversation, yet that doesn’t happen to you. The main reason for that can be body language.
Open Up Your Body Language
- Stand Up Straight
- Uncross Your Arms
- Make Eye Contact
- Smile!
- Lean Back
The way you speak and your tonality is also important. You’re probably experienced people losing attention sometimes, while other people get a very attentive audience no matter how devoid the conversation is.
Verbal
- Don’t talk so fast
- Project Your Voice
- Contribute to the conversation
Dating Shyness and shyness in general won’t disappear with these tips. It takes time. You have to put yourself out there and let people hear you. These tips will help you have more positive reactions and this will lead to great experiences – that inevitably break shyness.
