Flirting is defined as… a form of human interaction between two people, expressing a romantic and/or sexual interest. I didn’t think such a thing could be taught because flirting isn’t exactly a straight forward concept. It’s quite unorthodox and doesn’t follow set guidelines, but I have found a very good way of looking at it.

Flirting is Banter

Banter is defined as… fun, playful and spontaneous conversation. It is something that has more teasing, a more fun atmosphere and that isn’t that hard to do.

The key is a little role playing. The idea of role playing might be a little difficult at first, but you can really run with it once you get it. I’ve done this many times at a bar where I pushed a girl into the role of “my girlfriend”. Remember this is fun and playful, not some creep. And playfully talk like how the role should be. It’s fun and she’ll get into it too.

The key here is fun because you both have to enjoy it. You both have to vibe with it and as you she seems to get more into it, you can always fill it more with innuendos related to sex and things of that nature.